What People Are Saying About Help Me Live...
"If you or a loved one is struggling with cancer, don't be without Hope."David Spiegel, MD, director of the Stanford University Center on Stress and Health, author of Everyone's Guide to Cancer Survivorship "A superb book.
~
Patients with cancer often say to me, 'It's bad enough to have cancer, but would you BELIEVE what someone said to me the other day?' Those expressions are often not easily forgotten, when they caused either pain or joy. I really like Lori's use of these common expressions as the base for suggesting good etiquette and kind manners in talking to someone who has a serious illness."-Jimmie Holland, MD, Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center, author of The Human Side of Cancer.
~
"With grace and good humor, Hope tells us what we all should know about facing this life-altering disease. Extraordinarily moving and helpful, this book is essential reading for cancer patients as well as their families and friends."-Marc Silver, author of Breast Cancer Husband and former U.S. News & World Report editor.
"With grace and good humor, Hope tells us what we all should know about facing this life-altering disease. Extraordinarily moving and helpful, this book is essential reading for cancer patients as well as their families and friends."-Marc Silver, author of Breast Cancer Husband and former U.S. News & World Report editor.
~
"Lori Hope's masterful storytelling and clear explanations are invaluable for cancer survivors, helping you understand (and forgive) others' hurtful words and actions, and encouraging you to direct family and friends to responses that help. This book is a gift for caregivers and everyone who knows someone who is going through illness, helping you understand what helps or hurts (and why), but most important of all, showing you how to listen and care in healing ways."-Wendy S. Harpham, MD, author of Happiness in a Storm and Diagnosis: Cancer.
"Lori Hope's masterful storytelling and clear explanations are invaluable for cancer survivors, helping you understand (and forgive) others' hurtful words and actions, and encouraging you to direct family and friends to responses that help. This book is a gift for caregivers and everyone who knows someone who is going through illness, helping you understand what helps or hurts (and why), but most important of all, showing you how to listen and care in healing ways."-Wendy S. Harpham, MD, author of Happiness in a Storm and Diagnosis: Cancer.
~
"As an oncology nurse with over 14 years experience I have learned many "truths" by listening to my clients. When I read Lori's book I found myself nodding my head in recognition of many of these truths. She writes exquisitely of the emotions and the roller coaster ride of a cancer diagnosis and treatment. As a nurse educator I plan to share this book with my students to try and give them some insight into the common experiences that many cancer patients have, as well as the uncommon ones. Thank you, Lori, for creating such a powerful tool for learning."-Patricia Reilly, California State University School of Nursing.
"As an oncology nurse with over 14 years experience I have learned many "truths" by listening to my clients. When I read Lori's book I found myself nodding my head in recognition of many of these truths. She writes exquisitely of the emotions and the roller coaster ride of a cancer diagnosis and treatment. As a nurse educator I plan to share this book with my students to try and give them some insight into the common experiences that many cancer patients have, as well as the uncommon ones. Thank you, Lori, for creating such a powerful tool for learning."-Patricia Reilly, California State University School of Nursing.
~
"Even though I am a 20-year survivor, I needed to be reminded about what people in the throes of cancer need, and Lori Hope's book is perfect."-Kathy La Tour, Cure Magazine Editor-at-Larg.
"Even though I am a 20-year survivor, I needed to be reminded about what people in the throes of cancer need, and Lori Hope's book is perfect."-Kathy La Tour, Cure Magazine Editor-at-Larg.
~
"If the family and/or friends, co-workers, and/or employers of a one of my fellow cancer survivors may well be simpering,...while speaking to me thus, 'I would visit him or her with cancer, but I just cannot and I simply will not because I just do not know what to say,' then I would simply, privately, and quietly recommend that they read this text!"- Josh Grossman, M.D., FACP, Colonel (r), U.S. Army Medical Corps.
"If the family and/or friends, co-workers, and/or employers of a one of my fellow cancer survivors may well be simpering,...while speaking to me thus, 'I would visit him or her with cancer, but I just cannot and I simply will not because I just do not know what to say,' then I would simply, privately, and quietly recommend that they read this text!"- Josh Grossman, M.D., FACP, Colonel (r), U.S. Army Medical Corps.
~
"Filled with warmth, humor, compassion and love, Lori Hope guides us through her own experience with cancer and those of the individuals she interviewed. The advice, comments and suggestions contained within Help Me Live are meaningful and valuable to cancer patients, their families, friends, caregivers, physicians, and therapists as well as any compassionate individual living in a society with other human beings. Lori's hopeful and melodic voice sings throughout."-Jo Ellen Lezotte, The Cancer League, Inc. Past President.
"Filled with warmth, humor, compassion and love, Lori Hope guides us through her own experience with cancer and those of the individuals she interviewed. The advice, comments and suggestions contained within Help Me Live are meaningful and valuable to cancer patients, their families, friends, caregivers, physicians, and therapists as well as any compassionate individual living in a society with other human beings. Lori's hopeful and melodic voice sings throughout."-Jo Ellen Lezotte, The Cancer League, Inc. Past President.
~
"As a two-time survivor of breast cancer and a journalist, I found Help Me Live to be informative, touching, and even funny and when it comes to cancer, you need a sense of humor. The author also certainly lives up to her name: Her own personal story of cancer and the stories of others give you hope. The book provides a valuable service of what you should and shouldn't say to cancer patients."-Laura Marquez, ABC News correspondent.
"As a two-time survivor of breast cancer and a journalist, I found Help Me Live to be informative, touching, and even funny and when it comes to cancer, you need a sense of humor. The author also certainly lives up to her name: Her own personal story of cancer and the stories of others give you hope. The book provides a valuable service of what you should and shouldn't say to cancer patients."-Laura Marquez, ABC News correspondent.
~
"Help Me Live is realistic but upbeat. Drawing on her experience, those of many others with cancer, and that of a number of leading health professionals, Lori provides sensible and sensitive guidelines for helping those with cancer and their families to live better. If you or a loved one is struggling with cancer, don't be without Hope."-David Spiegel, MD, Stanford University, author of Living Beyond Limits.
"Help Me Live is realistic but upbeat. Drawing on her experience, those of many others with cancer, and that of a number of leading health professionals, Lori provides sensible and sensitive guidelines for helping those with cancer and their families to live better. If you or a loved one is struggling with cancer, don't be without Hope."-David Spiegel, MD, Stanford University, author of Living Beyond Limits.
~
"If I could have given copies of the book to my friends and family, it would have saved me countless tense and unhappy moments."-Karin Roosa, breast cancer survivor.
"If I could have given copies of the book to my friends and family, it would have saved me countless tense and unhappy moments."-Karin Roosa, breast cancer survivor.
~
"Every family touched by cancer should read this book. Too often, people who have cancer are seen more as bearers of the disease than as who they actually are. That can leave them feeling isolated, hurt, and angry. Lori Hope's Help Me Live, addresses this phenomenon with suggestions that are wise, clear, effective, and compassionate to all concerned."-Jeff Kane, MD, Sierra Nevada Cancer Center, author of How to Heal: A Guide for Caregivers.
"Every family touched by cancer should read this book. Too often, people who have cancer are seen more as bearers of the disease than as who they actually are. That can leave them feeling isolated, hurt, and angry. Lori Hope's Help Me Live, addresses this phenomenon with suggestions that are wise, clear, effective, and compassionate to all concerned."-Jeff Kane, MD, Sierra Nevada Cancer Center, author of How to Heal: A Guide for Caregivers.
~
"Help Me Live is a deeply moving exploration of the complex range of emotions that arise in the face of illness. Both patients and caregivers can enter into their roles with greater acceptance and love from reading the experiences and interviews by Lori Hope. Lori's lists of ways to act, words to say give us the confidence to enter these sensitive arenas of vulnerability and fear with greater knowledge, consciousness and confidence."-Susan Halpern, MSW, author of The Etiquette of Illness.
"Help Me Live is a deeply moving exploration of the complex range of emotions that arise in the face of illness. Both patients and caregivers can enter into their roles with greater acceptance and love from reading the experiences and interviews by Lori Hope. Lori's lists of ways to act, words to say give us the confidence to enter these sensitive arenas of vulnerability and fear with greater knowledge, consciousness and confidence."-Susan Halpern, MSW, author of The Etiquette of Illness.
~
"When people we love have cancer, we want to help them, but may not know how. Help Me Live puts you in direct contact with the true experts people who have been through it and offers you the opportunity to learn to support a cancer patient with compassion and intelligence. An insightful and very useful book."-Martin L. Rossman, MD, author of Fighting Cancer from Within.
"When people we love have cancer, we want to help them, but may not know how. Help Me Live puts you in direct contact with the true experts people who have been through it and offers you the opportunity to learn to support a cancer patient with compassion and intelligence. An insightful and very useful book."-Martin L. Rossman, MD, author of Fighting Cancer from Within.
~
""Everytime we read a book about cancer," said Margo Rivera-Weiss, librarian and art gallery curator of the [Women's Cancer] resource center, "it gets into 'what is this treatment, what is that treatment' (Those books) don't get into how to be there for your friend, how to be there for my wife. Lori has written that book."-San Francisco Chronicle"I really enjoyed your words. Nine months ago I was diagnosed with what appeared to be a cancerous tumor on the pancreas. I went throught a very scary time and really thought I was going to die based on what my doctor had told me. Fortunately the tumor [was] benign. I thought I was going to die when in battle in Vietnam and it was not as bad as this situation. Anyway, I want to thank you for your inspiring words."-D.R.
Photo by Laura Turbow -->© 2010 Lori Hope
""Everytime we read a book about cancer," said Margo Rivera-Weiss, librarian and art gallery curator of the [Women's Cancer] resource center, "it gets into 'what is this treatment, what is that treatment' (Those books) don't get into how to be there for your friend, how to be there for my wife. Lori has written that book."-San Francisco Chronicle"I really enjoyed your words. Nine months ago I was diagnosed with what appeared to be a cancerous tumor on the pancreas. I went throught a very scary time and really thought I was going to die based on what my doctor had told me. Fortunately the tumor [was] benign. I thought I was going to die when in battle in Vietnam and it was not as bad as this situation. Anyway, I want to thank you for your inspiring words."-D.R.
Photo by Laura Turbow -->© 2010 Lori Hope
